“Life flies by, and it’s easy to get lost in the blur. In adolescence, it’s ‘How do I fit in?’ In your 20s, it’s ‘What do I want to do?’ In your 30s, ‘Is this what I’m meant to do?’ I think the trick is living the questions. Not worrying so much about what’s ahead but rather sitting in the grey area – being OK with where you are.”
So Adorably Clueless!
In celebration of the 20th Anniversary of one of the iconic movies of my youth, here’s a tribute to Cher Horowitz’ iconic plaid outfit with a rock and roll twist since instead of wearing it with the customary plaid jacket over a knit cardigan, I decided to put a spin on things and wear the plaid skirt with a leather jacket and studded boots to add some edge.
White Noise
“There’s so much more to life than finding someone who will want you, or being sad over someone who doesn’t. There’s a lot of wonderful time to be spent discovering yourself without hoping someone will fall in love with you along the way, and it doesn’t need to be painful or empty. You need to fill yourself up with love. Not anyone else. Become a whole being on your own. Go on adventures, fall asleep in the woods with friends, wander around the city at night, sit in a coffee shop on your own, write on bathroom stalls, leave notes in library books, dress up for yourself, give to others, smile a lot. Do all things with love, but don’t romanticize life like you can’t survive without it. Live for yourself and be happy on your own. It isn’t any less beautiful, I promise.”
- Emery Allen
Channeling the 1950’s in a Floral Dress
If I were asked to live in an era where I love the fashion so much, I would immediately say either the 1920s or the 1950s. While it is easy to understand my affinity for Great Gatsby inspired “Flapper” style, people always seem to question why I chose the 1950s of all eras. For one, I consider the fifties as the 20th century’s version of “rebirth” especially since it was a time of peace and quiet after the wars that boggled the world. I consider the era very idyllic and picturesque… the modern world’s version of a Utopian synonym. And aside from those reasons, the more obvious one is that I just love the silhouette and style of the clothing prevalent in that era. Continue reading Channeling the 1950’s in a Floral Dress
Not quite as simple always as black and white
“I spent a lot of years trying to outrun or outsmart vulnerability by making things certain and definite, black and white, good and bad. My inability to lean into the discomfort of vulnerability limited the fullness of those important experiences that are wrought with uncertainty: Love, belonging, trust, joy and creativity to name a few.” Continue reading Not quite as simple always as black and white
